If you have followed my blog for very long, you know that I write about the concepts of recreation and leisure and our ultimate pursuit of happiness.
The year 2020 has shown most of us that, like it or not, we are living in a new normal. Oh, how I resisted that notion! After all, isn’t “normal” being able to hike trails without wearing a mask or worrying if we are 6 feet apart from others?
Isn’t “normal” having the ability to travel without fear of taking a flight to visit friends, family or traveling abroad? How about simply being able to use your local gym, campground, swimming pool or neighborhood park without fear of infection or the disappointment of closure?
The fundamental spaces and places we love and visit on a regular basis have been compromised due to the new normal of living within a pandemic.
For me, March 18 was the day California shut down, exactly 7 months ago.
Sacramento County has recently re-opened with some restrictions and I am so happy to be able to get back to my gym! I’ve been a member there since 2008 and have made many friends, and I get great workouts, too. One of my happy places. I will miss this gym once we move.
As motivated as I am for physical activity, our hot smokey summer deterred me from being able to get outside. I tried my share of working out to youtube exercise videos, but I settled for walking the dogs a few days a week.
On my walks around my neighborhood, there is only one street in which I am fond. No, not mine, as you will read shortly, but a street a few short blocks away. This photo shows a morning walk in early Fall.
There is something about this street with its well-kept yards, lack of chain-link fences, and fewer cars parked on the street. Really a gem in an otherwise deteriorating neighborhood. Autumn will show its lovely face on this street in November with elms, birch, and liquid amber trees that will look more like this photo taken two years ago.
As we kinda got used to our own backyards, many of us found them to be our new happy places. We longed for our vacations abroad, road trips in our RVs with abundant campground choices, open restaurants, and the like, but grudgingly stayed home to stay safe.
My backyard has been a happy place for me since June 2019 after my foot surgery, and then more so in late March, 2020. Here I planted sunflowers, plumeria, hydrangea and other garden flowers and enjoyed the hummingbird shows.
Sadly that summer, bound to my backyard by crutches and my knee scooter, I was exposed to one neighbors’ rantings and ravings as she loudly cursed her children and dropped the F-bomb all day. These were new renters behind us that shared our backyard fence, so there was no getting away from her. This behavior led us to begin our search for another place to live and inspired us to move to Washington to be closer to family and enjoy semi-rural living.
You will be happy to know that the renters were evicted after the owner discovered they destroyed the house! The new renters are quiet. The random shouts of happiness from their young children playing in their backyard is music to our ears! Their yard sounds like their happy place.
This Monday, we are on the road north with a moving truck full of boxes and furniture. Hubby is driving the U-Haul while I follow behind in his Ford truck. Our first stop is near Bend, OR, then we are back on the road Tuesday to Spokane. Wednesday we will unload into a storage unit and get that much closer to our new happy place.
We love this walk near where my in-laws live in Spokane Valley.

Even in the smoky air, there is beauty in nearby Washington’s Riverside State Park along the Spokane River. A short 15 minutes from our new home.
We won’t make the final move until mid-December.
Other happy places I’ve visited include Yosemite and the Grand Canyon, the delta and lakes, beaches, and rivers, near and far. But as 2021 approaches I am still open to find more happy places to discover and love!










Forgive me if what you’re reading sounds like my post “Happiest at Home,” published in early June. With our world turning the way it is, I predict we will continue to enjoy our happy places at home or close to it!
I am thrilled to link my happy places with this week’s Lens-Artists Challenge: My Hideaway!
Some images are inspired by Becky B’s Kinda Squares, Dawn’s Festival of Leaves, and Cee’s Flower of the Day.
Is your happy place a state of mind or a place you can visit and enjoy? Share your interpretations through images, stories, poetry, and music!

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Lovely and fun, Terri! You have indeed seen some Happy Places I can see – and now you are moving to another Happy Place – hopefully! Good luck with your movig as well!
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Thank you, Leya! We are loading a moving truck today in the heat in prep for the drive north tomorrow. I’m going to show my hubby your greenhouse for inspiration 😀
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😀 Good luck with your moving! And if you are not going to grow a huge amount of vegetables – the size of my little house is just enough!
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Thank you, Leya! Great advice!
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Lovely happy places and a great gallery. I do miss not being able to travel, have not been more than a three hours drive from home since March. Maybe next year will be more “normal”.
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I sure hope so, Maria, we need more normal! Thank you!
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Beautiful photos of your happy places, Terri. Safe driving this week!
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Thank you, Susan! Sadly we have to load the truck today in this 90 degree heat. Looking forward to cool temps soon.
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Terri: Beautiful photos of your happy places. Safe moving and driving this week! During this pandemic, my happy places have been the great outdoors. I feel grateful to have easy access to Lake Ontario and local parks and gardens. Here’s my contribution:
https://natalietheexplorer.home.blog/2020/10/18/fun-walk-autumn-colours/
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Thank you, Natalie! There’s nothing like fresh air and getting outdoors. Enjoy yours!
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Fabulous happy places, Terri. The street in Spokane is beautiful. My happy place has to be the neighbourhood at the moment, we’re on local lockdown but I’m looking forward to more normal too.
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Thank you, Cathy! Still on lock down? If I recall, you have a beautiful neighborhood to enjoy!
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We do 🙂
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Glorious happy places and so happy you are finding yours again after troublesome neighbours, the fires and Covid19.
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PS and kinda loving your squares 🙂
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Honestly I could find happiness just about anywhere, Becky. Thank you,!
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Beautiful happy places!! My heart breaks for the children in the family that was evicted. I do hope they are soon given the chance to find happy places of their own!
Safe travels to you on your transition to a new happy place. 🙂
Here’s my happy place contribution this week: https://frostonthemoosedung.com/2020/10/18/simple-sunday-oct-18-2020/
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Thank you, Cathy! Glad to see your contribution today!
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Good luck with the move, Terri. Neighbors can be a blessing or a curse. We’re having a bit of that right now, but nothing like what yours sounded like. I feel bad for the kids on those situations. It’s so unfair on them.
I hope you find more happy places up around Spokane to match those in the photos. Here’s my happy place today: https://grahamsisland.com/2020/10/18/two-step-revisited/.
By the way, the stand alone square photo above the final gallery, seems to have lost its link and disappeared.
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Thanks Graham, we may need some luck with loading in the heat today! I had reserved the Uhaul last month for yesterday but they canceled the reservation for no reason. We were lucky to get today. Ill check out that image, thanks for the heads up!
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Hi Graham, it must be a mobile viewing issue with that lost image. It shows up on my desktop view but not my mobile. Oh well!
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My happy place is a garden. I do a happy place post today but link as I not sure how to it. Have a safe and stress-free trip.
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I’ll come check out your post soon, BL. Have a look day!
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I am having problem with my pictures.
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Terri,

Your pictures are as lovely as always. As you know, Helen and i spent the summer on the road in our RV and had a fabulous time. After every one of our trips, the first thing I usually do once I settle in, is drive about 50 miles south to the Cherokee National Forest. I have always referred to this setting as “My Forever Place.” I go there to regroup and to make sure it hasn’t changed. I’m never disappointed. Here is a picture of the Tellico River flowing from the North Carolina Mountains.
Have a safe drive to Washington. Joe
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Thanks, Joe! How wonderful to have a forever place. I’m sure every place you visit brings you joy!
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Hi Joe, I had to view your photo in the comments on my desktop, mobile sometimes doesn’t work. Lovely shot!
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“Happy place” – this challenge was easy for me. Whenever I’m out and about exploring nature with my camera, I’m in my happy place.
https://livelaughrv.net/2020/10/18/small-town-america/
Safe travels north as you start this first step in the major move.
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Thanks, Ingrid. We get to load the truck in the heat a little later. Looking forward to a few days of cooler air.
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Yes, Terri, home is definitely a happy place for me too. I, unfortunately, cannot walk alone on our neighbourhood street anymore as the crime in South Africa has escalated to such an extent that people are getting attacked on the road for their cell phones and any other valuables. I am pleased your are moving somewhere nice.
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You seem to have a lot of happy activities to keep you busy at home, Robbie! I remember you mentioned that before about being unable to walk in your area. 😑
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Terri, it isn’t so unusual for happy people to have multiple happy places, is it? Your variety, like mine, definitely has a central theme – the great outdoors! We will be heading to one of my happy places on Nov. 1st for a two-week stay and I can’t wait. I’m so excited for this next chapter of your life and look forward to following along as you make new discoveries.
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That is so true, Cathy! Enjoy your vacation!
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These photos are something else. All things happen for good reasons and I think you were led to your new happy place in Washington
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Thank you, Alice! I’m super excited to explore our new area when we get completely moved in!
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A great collection of your Happy Places, Terri. Thanks for sharing!
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This is terrific! I will add mine tomorrow!
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Wonderful, thanks!
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I’m so glad those renters moved! Wowza! You seem to have a lot of happy places, Terri. Since we don’t have a particular home or a yard, I have to think my happy place depends on my state of mind. That being said, I’ve never not been happy in nature (except when it’s incredibly buggy). I’m also happy surrounded by friends, when I can totally be myself. These days, my happy place is wherever I’m comfortable – physically (without pain and in a nice climate) and mentally (not stressed or in a rush). I guess that’s a good place to be? :-);
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Many people are like you, Liesbet, with happy places being a state of mind. You and Mark embody this notion as well as you both choose where you want to spend your time. Hiccups happen along the way and we all just find the peace when abrupt change happens!
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‘Happiest at home is a great motto. It priorities family and the simple things. Good luck with your move – very exciting!
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Thank you, Donna! Simplicty is important these days as well as having a positive and joyful outlook.
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Hi Terri, your words and photos depict a very happy place indeed. Your move sounds exciting and I wish you well with the packing/unpacking/storage and ultimate move into your new happy place. Love how you’ve woven many other challenges throughout your post 🙂
Here’s my post https://debs-world.com/2020/10/18/wheres-your-happy-place/
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Thanks, Debbie! There is always drama with a move and our plans changed again for today. We’re still on track. I may need a happy place to hide in today though!
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Beautiful shots!
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Thank you!
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It’s amazing how your neighbors can make or break your living experiences. At least they are gone now.
XOOX
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
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We have enough land in the new place to be farther away. However, I’m aware that there is no guarantee of peace in rural living, Jodie. But the chances are better 😀
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Well as miserable as your former neighbors were Terri, it led you to a momentous decision to move to a new happy place – what a great adventure lies ahead! Thanks for linking to us, your subject is a perfect match for ours this week. Hope your skies have cleared by now, and please be very careful in the gym – we had dozens of cases tied to a gym in nearby Charleston this month!
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It’s strange how life decisions are made by innocuous moments, Tina. Mostly clear skies, still too hot, but fall should show up soon! Our gym limits numbers and I go mid morning, masked and loaded with hand sanitizer. Too bad about the gym in your area 😒
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P.S. since we are very much in sync this week, here’s a link to MY happy place! https://travelsandtrifles.wordpress.com/2020/10/17/lens-artists-challenge-119-my-hideaway/
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Excellent, glad you linked up, Tina!
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Beautiful images Terri! Glad you could get back to your gym. I have not been so brave to venture there. Here is my Happy Place https://dailymusing57.com/2020/10/18/sunday-stills-your-happy-place/
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Thanks, Lisa! I go to my gym mid morning. They only allow 50 people in at a time.
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I love the way you’ve woven in several happy places. Your beautiful photos show why they are your happy place. Good luck with the move.
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Thank you so very much, Jennifer!
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Such wonderful, happy photos, Terri – and so nice to think about our happy places. Toni x
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Thank you, Toni!
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Spokane Valley looks beautiful! Good luck with your move, Terri.
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Thank you, Stevie! A couple delays, but we are on the road today!
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Agree agree agree. I did have the luxury of walking outside without a mask because my neighborhood doesn’t have a lot of walkers. We have walking trails and horse trails and if I run into a handful of people–mostly individuals–it’s a big day. Automatic SDing too. My biggest take-away was the quiet of civilization’s hum. Traffic noises were so much less. I could hear the birds. What a joy.
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Hi Terri, I am confident that because of your optimistic attitude you will find many new happy places. You will have so much exploring to do in your new home and will find many new parks or places to visit. I am sure there will even be a really nice gym! We have all had adjustments and one of the positive things I’ve found is joy in walking around your neighborhood or hanging out on the patio. We just bought heavy new winter coats and boots in preparation for walking this winter- especially if the virus continues to grow as it is currently. I had been back to the gym to swim but it is starting to feel less and less safe as our numbers for Covid are rising again. I wish you and Hans safe travels this week!
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Oh thanks for all those lovely, thoughtful words, Michele. Last May, when we were there, we drove around a nearby neighborhood and people outside waved at us. I kept telling Hans that they must think we’re someone else. Nope, just being friendly Washingtonian! Good for you to invest in fitness outfits for winter. The chlorinated pool water would deter any virus, but navigating through steamy locker rooms could be troublesome. Sorry to read covid cases are on the rise, more people indoors these days. We plan to buy some snowshoes for walking, and I already have some good winter hiking boots. My bigger dog loves the snow so no excuses for a walk!
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Hi, Terri. I’m so glad you’re moving to a happy place. It’s so important that home is an oasis of beauty and quiet. Best of luck on your move! I also love that shot of the sunflower just opening up and that beautiful neighborhood in Spokane.
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Thank you, Patti. This move had a couple of hiccups with the truck reservation but we are 5 hours from Spokane as I write this. I know sunflowers grow there, so I hope to grow some more of my own. Im enjoying autumn more every hour we drive north!
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Wonderful, Terri. You picked a beautiful spot to live.
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Ahh, ‘Home Sweet Home.’ I’m with you all the way, Terri. And more so again given that yesterday we were informed of another lockdown starting on Oct 23rd until Nov 9th. Everything to close, expect essential stores. Plus, our clocks go back by one hour on Saturday night, so an extra hour in bed in my happy place.
Your photos this week are full of freshness, light, and beauty.
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Thanks, Hugh! Those are happy places near to my heart. We’re far from home as we drive a big Uhaul moving truck toward Spokane, our new, eventual happy place. I’m so sorry to read about your new lockdown, what a drag! Yay, for an extra hour sleep (ours is 11/)! Im still missing it from last spring 😳
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We all need a happy place during this pandemic year. I love your picture of the Spokane neighborhood. My happy place is in the woods! https://catsandtrailsandgardentales.com/2020/10/20/my-happy-place-is-in-the-woods-all-kinds-of-woods/
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We do! We’re driving to Spokane today and I’m excited for some fall photo ops, Susanne!
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https://nowathome.wordpress.com/2020/10/20/my-happy-place/
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A happy place, indeed, Terri. I so enjoy your gallery.
Thank you for taking us long. Glad you made a link to the Hideaway. 🙂
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Thank you, Amy, I’m always happy to see when photo challenges align!
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Great photos, great thoughts. Oh, THAT’S why they call it Half-Dome. Now I get it! 🙂
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Thanks, John!
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Lovely pictures of a lot of happy places! Drive safely and enjoy the views along the way. Do you go different ways each time, or take the same roads?
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Thanks, Janis! I got a few good pics while on the road. We usually go the same roads to save time.
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Home has always been my happy place but you are right, our backyards have become very special during this difficult time. My backyard is a refuge from the world.
Glad your gym is a happy place. We have revisited our gym twice since February. Still cared to workout there. I used to dread going but always come out so happy that I went.
Beautiful photo of the leaves!!!
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Thank you, Leslie! We just came back from moving a 20 foot Uhaul’s worth of furniture and boxes to a storage unit a couple miles from our new happy place!
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I like the look of your new happy place, Terri. And it will give you a new neighbourhood to explore. Good luck with the move 🙂 🙂
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Hi Jo, thank you so much! By the time we get there, we’ll be exploring in snowshoes! That will be a morning walk I will have to share 🙂
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Terri, you always have such an upbeat, happy attitude, making it a pleasure to read your post every day. Today is no exception, even with the observation about the renters behind you. You’ve got a great plan for moving and I can’t wait to see all the photos you’ll take of your new home. Stay healthy.
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Thank you, Shari, it takes a lot of energy to be negative. I dealt with negative attitudes at work and I don’t miss it one bit. I hope you are healthy too!
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BTW, my happy place is wherever my friends and family are, especially our sons and their families.
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I hope you are able to be together!
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As long as it’s warm outside, we can be together while social distancing.
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