This week’s Sunday Stills theme “I’d Rather Be…” implies something you wish you were doing instead of doing something else, or would rather be somewhere else. Maybe challenge yourself with the question “Would you rather walk on the moon or visit the bottom of the ocean…for example? This theme has endless possibilities for you to explore and share!
In the meantime, Spring has officially awakened in the northern hemisphere!

After a long winter where snow fell over five months (Nov-March!), I was at the point where I would rather be anywhere than in the dark. The onset of snow and winter is fun until Christmas, but by January, I’m done!
As I patiently waited for signs of spring, I looked through tons of image archives which helped me design the theme for this post. I hope you enjoy my walk down memory lane as I recall spring and autumn days of hiking and the fond memories I enjoyed engaging with my university students from back in the day.
Teaching the Concept of “I’d Rather Be (or Do)…”
Back in my university lecturing days, I had the honor of teaching recreation and parks management courses at Sacramento State University for 10 years. My creativity flowed with ideas to demonstrate the importance of leisure to college students who were non-majors. I had the bright idea to teach students about spontaneous play, by giving each student a small vial of bubbles. Before class ended we walked to the nearby Guy West Bridge and proceeded to play!



Most adults are taught that play is only for children. On this softball field managed by my former parks and recreation department, we hosted adult sports leagues as well as adult groups who enjoyed playing kickball. Their shirts say it all!

In addition to university-sponsored activities on and off campus, students in my courses engaged in a variety of activities and then wrote essays about their experiences.
A full day at the University’s Challenge Ropes Course introduced students to the concepts of leisure, play, motivation, fear, and taking a leap of faith. Their subsequent essays were quite wonderful to read.





I enjoyed getting in on the action by crossing this bridge, too!

“When you cross a bridge, you take a break from this world!” ― Mehmet Murat ildan
Other classes tried their hands at the university’s aquatics center located on Lake Natoma, 10 miles from campus.



Just look at this student’s smile as she tried the water bike for the first time!

After a fun morning with the students, you would find me borrowing a stand-up paddle board for a two-hour SUP session.

After all, I had to practice what I teach!
After students faced their fears and tried new activities on the challenge course or at the aquatic center, they wrote essays on their reactions to their new experiences. Many students admitted they were excited to try more recreational activities and to change their perspective on what, where, or how they’d “rather be.” Lessons learned.
I’d Rather Be…Hiking!
“Hiking and happiness go hand in hand, or foot in boot.” ~ Diane Spicer

I know, I hike almost every day, which is pretty much my go-to exercise. Trust me when I say it has been a challenge with all our snow this winter. With most of the snow melted, I can now take much longer walks around the neighborhood and hike into the nearby hills.
The Bowl and Pitcher area in Riverside State Park is close to home and a fun destination to take folks when they come to visit us.






My bride-to-be daughter and her fiance enjoyed their visit in 2021.

“If you are losing your leisure, look out! — It may be you are losing your soul.” ― Virginia Woolf
Inspiring Photo Challenges This Week
Each week I am inspired by my fellow bloggers’ photo challenges. I enjoy incorporating these into my Sunday Stills weekly themes.
Sunday Stills Photo Challenge Reminders
The Sunday Stills weekly-themed photo challenge is easy to join. You have all week to share and link your post.
- Remember to title your blog post a little differently than mine.
- Please create a new post for the theme or link a recent one.
- Entries for this theme can be posted all week.
- Tag your post “Sunday Stills.”
- Don’t forget to create a pingback to this post so that other participants can read your post.
- I also recommend adding your post’s URL to the comments.
This Week’s Featured Bloggers
Sunday Stills is a wonderful community of bloggers and photographers who desire to connect with one another. Below are this week’s links from bloggers who shared their “I’d Rather Be” photos. I add these all week as new links are posted.
- YOUR BLOG’S NAME HERE…
- Always Write
- Beachwalk Reflections
- Between the Lines
- Boz Bozeman
- Bushboys World
- Cats and Trails and Garden Tales
- The Day After
- A Day in the Life
- Deb’s World
- Equipoise Life
- Graham’s Island
- Hugh’s Views and News
- LadyLee Manila
- Loving Life
- Musin’ With Susan
- Philosophy through Photography
- Picture Retirement
- Quaint Revival
- Roberta Writes
- Stevie Turner
- This is Another Story
- Travel with Me
- Woolly Muses
- Working on Exploring
A huge thank you to all of you who shared your GREEN posts last week. I can’t wait to see what inspires you this week with your “rather be” ideas!
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That’s exciting getting a chance to try all those activities Terri – how brave you were with the “tightrope” walking. I really liked the quote you used: “If you are losing your leisure, look out! — It may be you are losing your soul.” ― Virginia Woolf
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Thank you, Linda! I loved my years as a professor especially being a part of the experiential education activities. We were harnessed very well with highly trained leaders helping us.
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That’s good that you took a lot of precautions Terri and you set an good example for others who were not as adventurous as yourself.
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Great pictures! You’re so adventurous, Terri! Who knew you could make a career out of recreation? My desk job was awfully dull by comparison! 😉 🙂 I finally came up with my take on this week’s prompt. Here you go! https://catsandtrailsandgardentales.com/2023/03/23/id-rather-be-in-arizona/
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Thank you, Susanne! I was pleasantly surprised to be able to have this career, then teach it after so many years. You caught me working away on posts and images for the next couple of weeks!
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A wonderful career, indeed! Glad I caught you active in WordPress! I spent all day configuring my new PC and digging into my archives. Thanks once again for the inspiration! 🙂
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I always appreciate your talented lens’ contributions!
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So sweet. Thank you so much!
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Wonderful places you’d rather be Terri!
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Thank you, Lisa!
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Hi Terri, the life we are enjoying right now is pretty good, so there is no place I’d rather be. I’m glad you are returning to Springtime activities and longer hikes. Love all the pics of your active lifestyle and former teaching days. I guess my pingback didn’t work, (I composed mostly on my phone) so I’ll leave my post here. https://picture-retirement.com/2023/03/19/living-in-the-moment/
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Doesn’t it seem easier to find where we’d rather be once we’ve made the commitment to retire, Suzanne? You seem content and that’s they key! Kudos for prepping that post on your phone!
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Thoroughly enjoyed watching so many varieties of activities.
Nothing like blowing bubbles💭
Thank you, Terri.
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Thank you, Mr Philo! Blowing bubbles brings out the child in all of us!
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Indeed!
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Don’t tell anyone, but I enjoy blowing bubbles too, Terri. Luckily, my great-niece always leaves her bottle of bubbles here when she visits. I always have to go and buy a replacement before she visits again.
Well done for walking that bridge high up in the trees. Did you always look ahead, or were you tempted to look down?
Good to see those first buds of spring. It must be a welcome sign, although I’ve experienced more white Easters than white Christmases – just saying. Who was it that said, ‘April can be the cruellest month.’ He/she was right.
But whatever the weather, keep smiling and making people smile, Terri.
See you tomorrow for Wordless Wednesday.
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Let’s hope April won’t be too cruel, Hugh, at least this year while we’re traveling. I experienced my first white Easter last year–jut a dusting but it was surely the coldest one I’d experienced. The tree buds are awakening–the news showed someone’s crocus blooming.
Getting college students to blowing bubbles was strangely easy although I noticed a LOT of sheepish grins 🙂 On that bridge, I remember the course staff telling us to look toward the other side–better to do! See you on Wednesday!
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I was interested to read about your experiences teaching your students about the values of adult leisure activities – values you clearly espouse yourself with your SUP and hiking activities!
Of course you already know my response to ‘I’d rather be ..’ will be ‘travelling’ 😆 SO in a way almost any one of my posts could fit this theme! However I’m sharing my latest Colombia post in a triple-dipping fest: https://www.toonsarah-travels.blog/a-wander-through-getsemani/ 😏
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My teaching years were delightful, Sarah, I felt lucky to do it and lead young adults to satisfying careers and leisure time!
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A water bike sounds kind of fun. What a great post, with so many fun sounding activities!!!
Can you remind me the name of the newspaper you write for?
https://troyerslovinglife.blogspot.com/2023/03/taking-in-life-around_20.html
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Hi Kirstin, it looked fun, I didn’t try it. Both the aquatic center and challenge course were operated by the university and offered high quality services to students and the community.
The paper is the South Stevens County Times.
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Perfect prompt when so many of us are done with winter and eagerly awaiting spring. Even though we don’t get the snow (or atmospheric rivers) I would like my yard to dry out a bit. It is possible to overwater succulents 🙂
Every time I see your pictures of the classes you taught in the field of recreation (who knew there was a whole field dedicated to recreation? I didn’t), I think that I definitely pursued the wrong major 🙂
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My daughter said SD was getting rain this week. Hopefully things will dry out soon because we have a wedding to attend on April 1st! I hadn’t known about the parks and rec major until 2 failed major attempts while attending Grossmont College in 1978-79. I wanted to work outdoors in the National parks, but found Cal State’s rec majors in various cities. There are several concentrations including public agency management, park resource mgmt, therapeutic recreation, then the whole commercial, hospitality and tourism side. I was smart to get into it in 1980 once I moved to Sacramento 🙂
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These are fun and happy moments, Terri! Love the first image especially.
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Thank you, Amy!
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I would have loved to be in your class and go playing sometimes🙂
I am so glad we have plenty of spring signs here as well, all ready for the new season!
Christie
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It was a great curriculum, experiential education was effective in this major. Thank you, Christie!
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What a fun post, Terri. There’s nothing quite like expanding our experiences and testing our bravery to try new things. Those students must have loved your classes! I love hiking and physical challenges when safely undertaken. We are often so much more capable than we believe. Great job walking across the log! 😀 A super fun post.
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Thank you, Diana! Our university’s department had many talented professors. I was among a few who had careers in the field and brought our experiences to the classroom. Those 10 years of teaching were some of the best times of my life.
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I meant to add I loved your comment “We are often so much more capable than we believe.” Pure gold!
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Lovely spring photos, Terri – I so admire your adventurous spirit. Toni xx
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Thank you, Toni! My parents stoked that spirit in me and my hubby fanned the flames!
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https://equipoiselife.wordpress.com/2023/03/10/road-trippin-to-the-mountains/
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Love snow, love skiing. March is a great month to hit the slopes. In fact, we just got back a few days ago.
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I’m not much of a skier, but I enjoyed Nordic. I just end up snowshoeing 🙂 Good going, Bernie!
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Gosh darn – my post last week would have been perfect. I didn’t title it #Sundaystills, but it’s definitely where I would “rather be.” Spring skiing anywhere!
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Spring skiing was practically a mantra by skiers living in Sacramento who loved Lake Tahoe’s ski resorts in the spring.
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Man the ski resorts down there are just getting pummeled with snow!
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Sure are, now they’re getting some rain! My daughter’s BF spent 2 weeks near Tahoe Donner ski area for skiing then spent two days shoveling 3-4 feet of snow off their cabin roof!
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Rain would be a downer for sure!
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I just wanted to add that you don’t have to have “Sunday Stills” in your post title for it to be part of the challenge 🙂
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I did not realize that. I read the guidelines incorrectly I guess.
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You are such an inspiration. I bet your students adored the days of play under your instruction. Bubbles!! Who doesn’t love bubbles, when they allow themselves to just let go and have fun. I remember sitting with my grands during the pandemic and being able to remove our masks long enough to blow bubbles. I wanted to blow them by the hour.
And hiking. We were keen on hiking for a couple of years and then PC began having back problems. I sometimes wonder if we would just go back to it, on a smaller scope to start, if his back issues would improve. Being outdoors always makes me feel better. No matter what we are doing and where we are.
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Very well expressed, Leslie! And thank you for your kind words! Those memories are precious for sure! I hike a lot more than my hubby but easing into it might be good! Any excuse to be outdoors, right?
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Great post photos and theme Terri. I find it interesting that you say that “Most women can’t grab and hold on” when leaping to the trapeze bar. I wonder why?
Anyway I had fun composing my post 🙂
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Thank you, Brian! I’m glad this theme has resonated with people and I’m loving the clever posts and fun comments! Women generally have less upper body strength to hold onto the bar, especially grabbing from a height with gravity at play. But, hey, we can try, right?
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I guess training and exercise makes for excellent female trapeze artists. Always have a go is what I say 🙂
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I’d rather be hiking too. Excellent photos.
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Many thanks, John!
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Terri,
A teacher who leads a class in blowing bubbles is a treasure. I never had one like that, and I can’t even remember a class outside of a classroom except for ROTC. Good to know that Spring is heading your way. Maybe you can hustle up a kickball game! Loved this post. Have a great week. Joe
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Thank you, Joe! Experiential education was a big thing at our university! Our temps today got to 58F! Everyone was outside today, it was neat to see them and kids riding bikes down our street! I actually loved kickball ❤️
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Great ideas, Terri. I have tried the rock climbing wall but the ropes look super scary. Was that you leaping from rope to rope hoping to catch one and not fall into the ravine? I love the t-shirts. We should have some special t-shirts for our visit! LOL Is that the last picture in your gallery of shots at Bowl and Pitcher, your daughter and you? You look like sisters! This is a very fun post!
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Thank you, Marsha! You’re so full of questions! No pictures of me leaping for the trapeze this time, the climb is the scariest part for me–but jumping off in full harness is fun! The last shot in the gallery is one of my friends from Sacramento, the very last shot is Lauren with her fiance. My neighbor reads my blog and she told me today she did a tri-level zip line somewhere–I would do that!
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I’d have to be very sure that it would hold! I have gone parasailing, though in Hawaii. I went up after two little girls about aged 10. LOL I figured if they were brave, I would be, too. The seat was tight, but it was so quiet up there, I got itchy to get down and talk to someone.
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I love that you got to teach students how to play Terri! What a great concept. Your photos show clearly the importance of having fun and using our leisure time. I’ve been at a Rotary training session all weekend at the beach and the views from the windows of the blue sky and water made me wish I was outside and not stuck inside!! I’ll try and write a post 🙂
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Thank you, Debbie. I had a wonderful 10 year run teaching. Your peeks out the window sound quite nice, seeing the ocean! I’m sure if you have time, your “rather be” post will be a fun read!
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I’ve just written it!!! It’s amazing what you can with some time 🙂
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Hi, Terri – Looking at your photos, I am reminded that your balance, and your bravery, are incredible. You may find me in Tree Pose, but never on a SUP or on the very narrow, cylinder bridge! 😀
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Thank you, Donna! You are too kind! I wore a harness which incidentally I need some days to achieve tree pose 🤣
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Great photos Terri! I’d rather be on our cruise which we are taking in June but really at the moment we are renovating our home and I’m enjoying the new look. Perhaps I’d rather be at home at the moment. 🙂
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Thank you, Sue! I’m sure no one said they’d rather be renovating ever 😁 but it is quite fun to live in it once done.
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That Bowl and Pitcher area looks very beautiful for a hike, Terri. I’m not very sporty and the only thing I can do effectively is walk, but I might be tempted by the water bike. And I could definitely blow bubbles! Have a great week, and thanks for the link.
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We’re so lucky to live in such a beautiful area so close to home, Jo. Walking is the best thing we can do for our bodies, I agree. Thanks for checking my post out today, I’ll link it properly Monday morning 😄
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Hi Terri, here is my link: https://roberta-writes.com/2023/03/19/roberta-writes-sunday-stills-id-rather-be-and-tanka-tuesday-fun-poetry-animals/
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I couldn’t be happier than to say there’s nowhere I’d rather be than right here these days Terri. Now come July I’ll be changing my tune LOL! Excellent topic for the week, very creative. Loved the post
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Well you better watch out or all your blogger friends may descend on the island to experience what you have 😉
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Oh and LOVE
This quote
“When you cross a bridge, you take a break from this world!”
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I was happy to have found that–very apropos these days!
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😊☀️
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Terri
Fantastic post and once again I like how you mange to cohesively connect themes – like the bridge and spring and your own – etc
Also – enjoyed your memory lane sharing and seems like you were an engaging teacher that left lasting impressions !!
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Why thank you so much, Yvette, that is a very nice thing to say. I had a passion to teach what I learned and experienced over the years working in the field, so I suppose my enthusiasm was catching! I always love a good double-dip, LOL!
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These are good memories to have coming and going while you are out on your daily walking adventures
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Excellent idea for a topic Terri! Truth be told, right now there’s truly nowhere I’d rather be and nothing I’d rather be doing than enjoying early spring on Kiawah. Flowers are blooming everywhere, the beach is perfect for walking and the bike path for biking. Soon the tourists will set in so this is a favorite season for all of our residents – at least all the ones I know! Wishing you warmth and sunshine in the coming days!
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Thank you, Tina! You might remember seeing the occasional license plates that read “I’d rather be” … fishing, or whatever. that might have nudged my inspiration for the theme, LOL! I can imagine that Kiahwah this time of year is magical since tourists haven’t yet descended!
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You definitely are an active person! … Good for you! March at home has been on the cool side … actually cold the past couple of days – but spring is around the corner. Nonetheless, I would rather be at the beach. https://beachwalkreflections.wordpress.com/2021/02/02/36-beaches-v1/
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Many thanks, Franks! I cannot deny that spending days at the beach is a good idea! There are a couple of dog beaches in San Diego we like to visit.
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Yay for Spring that allows us to do so much more. I wish I had your energy and I love your photos.
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Thank you, Sofia! Cheers to warm spring temps sooner than later!
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Not sure I could do all that climbing and jumping these days, Terri. No head for heights anymore! I’m totally with you on the hiking though which is what I’ve gone for this week: https://grahamsisland.com/2023/03/19/kau-desert-trail/. Have a great week.
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Not sure I could anymore either, especially rock wall climbing, Graham! Hiking is the best!
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A really fun idea this week, Terri. Great pictures. I especially like the bubbles ones.
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Thank you, Robbie! Each semester I did this the students really didn’t know what to do with themselves, but they really got into it.
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I wish I had the propensity for exercise like you do.
Aah well.
Those t-shirts are great and the images from Riverside Park are stunning.
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I blame my mom, Dawn, she always had us moving 😁
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Good for her!
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And for us! We used to complain about being dragged to Yosemite every summer when we were kids. No complaining now!
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I’d rather be content with what I have……..cause I’m lazy
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🤣 you’re too funny, Wayne! And with all your boating, photography and cycling, you are not lazy!
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true ……but I’m still lazy!
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Are you saying you’d rather be teaching again? Or you’d rather be in California? 🙂 Leisure activities are fun and we all should do it more often. I enjoy walking more than hiking, if I’m honest.
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That’s a great question, Liesbet! No to both, but I was fortunate to have those times in my life. Both brought great joy to me over the years, but I’d rather be here in Eastern Washington surrounded by pine trees, mountains, wildlife, and endless trails 👣
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I’m lucky to have a lot to do. Here’s one thing I’d rather be doing: https://bozbozeman.com/2023/03/19/sundaystills-photo-challenge-id-rather-be/
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I know, right? Off to check out your post, Boz!
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What a wonderful life you’ve led. I’m sure not without challenges, but you have lovely memories of nature’s power. Mine was more likely to be spent indoors studying, researching, working, reading. Which I have no complaints about.
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Thank you, Jacqui! I loved being a part of academia and teaching leisure and recreation concepts to young people both in and out of the major. All you research leads to the amazing books you write and opens doors that many would never explore.
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Great photos, Terri. Of course adults can play! I feel like those students when I get in the kayak.
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And you know what? You LOOK like a student in that kayak–it brings out the youngster in us 🙂
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Lol!
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This reminds me of my realization that a perk of having a youngster around was now I could play again and no one would think it was odd. I could skip as we walked, play hide and seek, and of course blow bubbles. So much fun in simple playtime. And thank you for sharing our bowl and pitcher photo. I loved that visit and that you shared such a lovely place with us…I’m also envious that you have such a grand area like the bowl and pitcher nearby to escape to as often as you desire. Spring is showing itself here too. Teasing us with sunshine and warmer temps as made for an enjoyable weekend before the next round of rains storms.
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It does help to have a kid around, but I decided that I just let myself go and enjoy the outdoors in my own dorky way. It helps that Hans likes to have fun too. I’m glad I could take you and Steve to that spot. I want to go back after our trip once the river starts roaring through. We are supposed to get rain this week, but rain here is rarely a steady, wet kind. Enjoy your spring weather, Cheryl!
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Wow, Terri I’m exhausted just looking about your photos 😉 Did you manage to keep your balance on the log bridge? I’d probably have been swinging at the first step! Great action photos!
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Thank you, Cathy, LOL! Balancing was interesting especially that I was in my mid-50s at the time–the harness helped and the log was wider than expected. My students encouraged me–I also jumped off the “leap of faith” challenge to grab for the trapeze bar. Most women can’t grab and hold on, so down you go–slowly due to the harness and the staff person holding the rope. It was fun to be a part of all that.
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I’m jealous you have tree buds sprouting!! The smiles on the people’s faces in all of your photos made me smile. Such fun to try new things and explore places – your post has great vibes! The bride-to-be and her finance look so happy too – I bet you’re getting so excited for the big day!! Spring is on its way, I hope to see more signs of it in my neck of the woods soon. Enjoy your week, Terri!!
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Thank you, Shelley! That tree bud image was taken in Hood River Oregon 2 weeks ago, but we do have tree buds slowly appearing on our quaking aspens–you reminded me to go out and grab a pic! I had fun as a college lecturer–it was the joy of my life!
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You’re welcome! Yes, go grab a pic of your trees. The joy on their faces tells me that you were one of the students favorite lecturers!! 🥰
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Haha, I did, Shelley. I admit that I got great evaluations every semester as a lecturer. I was able to teach what I knew and did during my 40+ year career in parks and rec.
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That’s putting your gifts to excellent use :-)!!
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I’d rather be me…. 🙂
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