After 88 years and 9 months, my sweet dad, Tom Webster, passed into Heaven last Saturday, April 12. We spent many wonderful days last Christmas and through January visiting him and our families in Arizona, visiting, talking, and EATING.

Dad LOVED food!

“A daughter’s first love is her father—and her greatest loss.”

“No matter how old we are, we still need our dads, and wonder how we’ll get by without them.” ― Jennifer Williamson


To those who follow me on Facebook, thank you for sharing your kind comments and memories.

“This is the price you pay for having a great father. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments ― and you get the tears at the end, too.” ― Harlan Coben
We are in the midst of planning Dad’s funeral services, which will take place in Fountain Hills, Arizona, on Memorial Day Weekend. Because Dad was a Navy Korean War Veteran, an Honor Guard Detail will be present to play Taps and present the American Flag to his wife (my step-mom). 😢
Please see my updated Sunday Stills page; my posting schedule has changed to accommodate our travel in May.
Remember, to those who participate in the Sunday Stills challenges, I am publishing the next Sunday Stills challenge on Monday, April 21. But feel free to publish your post on Sunday and throughout the week as usual, then grab the link when it goes live on Monday morning. The theme for that week is Earth Day, which officially falls on April 22nd.

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Salute. Life well-lived. Thank you for your service to our country, kind sir. You sure were a cutie. And had an obvious enthusiasm for life.
Terri, thinking of you as you make the arrangements for your father’s memorial and services. I can tell in these photos just how much he meant to you. Our parents were of a very special generation and I am afraid we are losing the best of the best with their passing. Praying your many happy memories will help bring you comfort during this difficult time. Thank you for sharing him with us.
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Thank you, dear Leslie, for your eloquent comments. I feel better every day, but wow, grief pops up when you least expect it. I’m thinking he’s swapping stories with the Pope…both born in 1936, both 88 years old, and passed within a week of each other ❤️✝️
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My deepest condolences to you and your family, Terri. The photos of him are terrific. His sweet personality shines through.
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Thank you so much, Debra!
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A most lovely tribute to your father, Terri. Sending healing hugs through this time. ❤ ❤
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Thank you, Debby ❤️
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Oh, I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad’s passing. He was fortunate to have a long life. Savor your memories. I understand about losing parents from my experiences, and wish you the best during this time. Thinking of you.
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Thank you, Doug. I really appreciate that you stopped by. Hope all is well with you.
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Terri, this is a wonderful tribute to your Dad. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Thank you, Beth, much appreciated!
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This is a poignant tribute to your dad Terri. You had nice photos of him as well as the two of you, including the recent Christmas photo that I mentioned in my comment to you on Sunday. My favorite pic was you and Dad with you wearing your Brownie uniform. I’m sorry for your loss and so close to the Easter holiday as well.
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Thank you, Linda! I wish I could find the original pic of me in my Bluebird uniform with Dad. It might be in a scrapbook. I remember your big Pic scanning project. I may be doing a smaller version of that shortly. I always appreciate your comments!
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That scanning project took four days over Thanksgiving weekend 2017, but was one of the best decisions I’ve made as I’ve incorporated many photos into my blog and a couple of mouse clicks and I’m perusing the albums, albeit many raw images still need tweaking. So Bluebirds is with Campfire Girls per Google. I was a Brownie, but I figured the Canadian uniforms were different. I was a Pioneer Girl after moving to the States. Fun times! Thank you. Have a blessed Easter Terri.
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Yes, I need to do this…
I was a Bluebird, then moved back to California and became a girl scout. Both great organizations!
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Yes they are!
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Part of your fathers legacy is you Terri and he did such a good job at it too I might add.
Sorry to hear of his passing. I wish him well on his journey.
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Thank you, Wayne, for those kind and uplifting words. Means a great deal!
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I crossed that bridge in 86. We all must.
Wishing for you to find your path Terri.
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A heartfelt post, Terri. Your love for your dad comes through beautifully. I’m sorry for your lost but so glad that you got to see him recently. I know you’ll miss him. ❤ ❤
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Thank you, Diana! We’ll miss him so much, but he had a long life with excellent health until his 80s.
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My deepest condolences. Please take care and thanks for sharing this at such a difficult moment. 😢
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Thank you very much, I really appreciate your condolences.
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I’m very sorry for your loss Terri 🤗 This is a lovely tribute to your father. I can certainly see the family resemblance! I’m so glad you got to spend his last Christmas together, that will be a very special memory I am sure. Sending hugs!
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Thank you for your kind thoughts and hugs, Sarah! Our holidays spent in Arizona will be etched in my memories for all time.
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Our condolences on your loved father’s passing
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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Thank you, KB. 💜
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I am sorry for your loss, and a beautiful tribute to your dad, Terri. May he rest in peace.
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Thank you, Eugi! 💜
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You’re welcome, Terri.
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So sorry for your loss dear Terri. Hugs
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Thank you so much, Sadje!
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Hugs 🤗
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My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family, Terri. Cherish all the precious memories of your dad during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Thank you, Hugh. This all seemed to happen so quickly within the last 3 weeks. For that I am grateful. I look forward to gathering with my family next month in Arizona.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, Terri – what a beautiful post
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Thank you, Toni ❤️
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So sorry for your loss Terri, but I’m glad you were able to spend time with him so recently. Take care.
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Thank you, Graham. Somehow we expected Christmas 2024 to be his last one. After his fall 3 weeks ago, everything changed. He was ready.
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a fine tribute to dad; sending hugs and warm wishes your way 🙂
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Many thanks, John!
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Sending warm hugs and deep prayers your way!
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Thank you, Donna!
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May he rest in peace! My sincerest condolences.
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Thank you, Egidio. He spent his childhood in the Texarkana area.
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That’s a lovely tribute, Terri. I bet he was as proud of you as you were of him.
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Oh, that is so sweet, thank you ❤️
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Very sorry for your loss, may God be with you during this difficult time
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Thank you Alice. We lean heavily on God.
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Dear Terri, so sorry to hear of your loss. May his memory be a blessing.
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Thank you, Rebecca!
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Condolences Terri. Your father had a naturally happy smile, try and remember his joy. Take care.
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Thank you, Paul! Dad’s quick sense of humor was evident at the end.
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Oh Terri, I am very sorry for your loss, may God bless your wonderful father and your family. 🙏🏻✝️❤️
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Thank you, John. We miss him but he is in Heaven with this family. ❤️
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Amen. 🙏🏻
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My deepest condolences to you and your family. Pray
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Thank you, I appreciate it so much!
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What a beautiful tribute Terri and I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs your way 💞💜💞 xxx
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Thank you, dear Xenia. He lived a long life and we are lucky he was our dad. ❤️
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God bless your Dad and you Terri the love from you both shines through these photos 💜💜💜
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Aww, thank you, Willow. Your comments are always so sweet. 💜
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I’m sorry for your loss!
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Thank you very much!
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I’m so sorry Terri. I’m sure you’re so glad you were just out here to see him. You’ve been such a blessing to him and him to you.
XOXO
Jodie
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Thanks so much, Jodie! We knew if we didn’t make that trip it would have been too late.
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What a beautiful tribute to your Dad. Such wonderful pictures and great quotes.
Prayers of peace for you and yours, dear Terri.
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Thank you, Nancy! ❤️
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This may be my third attempt at posting this comment. I’m so sorry Terri. He will remain a blessing in your heart and memory. Take care.
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I got them all, Anne. Silly WordPress.
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I’m so sorry your dad passed Terri. You will carry him on in your heart and memories. Take care.
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Thank you, Anne. He lived a long life. We’ll always remember.
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I’m so sorry to hear this, Terri. We never forget our wonderful dads. A perfect tribute.
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No we don’t, thank you so much, Darlene!
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My sincerest condolences for your loss. Sending thoughts, prayers, and hugs. 🙏
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Thank you, Ingrid. ❤️
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I’m sorry for your loss of your sweet dad, Terri! Beautiful photos of you and him and warm memories! It was wonderful you spent time with him last winter. His 88th birthday was precious. It’ll remind you of him whenever you’re outdoors. 😍🥰
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Thank you, Miriam! We spent some many summers in Yosemite fishing and hiking. He loved it there and generations of us also do because of him and Mom.
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How wonderful, Terri. The memories keep our hearts warm. I watched how my dad kept the plants thrived. That’s why I enjoy gardening so much.
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A beautiful tribute to your dad, Terri. I’m so sorry for your loss 💔
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Thank you, dear Cathy. I like to think he is reunited with his siblings and parents. ❤️
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Thank you for sharing those beautiful quotes. I’m sorry for your loss, Terri. It’s harder when you have a good father. I miss mine everyday, even though it’s been four years now. But, I remind myself that I was lucky to have a good dad. Wishing you strength to get through this. I’m glad you got to spend time with him during Christmas❤️
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Thank you so much, Smitha. It’s hard to lose our parents. Dad was very involved in our lives when we were kids. We’re better people for it.
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A beautiful tribute to your dad, Terri! 💖 I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s wonderful that you were able to visit him last Christmas. May your memories sustain you. 🌹
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Thank you, Debbie. We’ll never regret spending that precious time with him during the holidays. Those memories will absolutely sustain us.
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A lovely tribute to your dad, Terri. I’m sorry for your loss.
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Thank you, Natalie ❤️
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That was precious, Terri.
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Thank you, Jacqui ❤️
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Terri, I so glad you had such a wonderful dad and so sorry for his loss. In your tribute to him, you did a great job of sharing him with all of us. xxx. Judy
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Thank you, Judy. My dad was such a character, even to the end.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Terri. Sending you love and light.
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Thank you, Robbie. I’m certain Dad is reunited with his parents and siblings.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You were so wise to spend a lot of time together in the last few years building on your decades of memories.
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Thank you, Bernie. Our time spent last Christmas and New Years was priceless.
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That’s such a beautiful way to remember him—filled with love, laughter, and shared meals. Wishing you peace and comfort in the warmth of those memories.
RIP.
Philo
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Thank you Mr Philo! He rarely complained and was always positive.
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Oh Terri, I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your dear dad! ❤️
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Thank you, Susanne. 4 years of dementia, then moving them after the fire in 2023. He lived a very long time.
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Wonderful pictures of your dad. I’m so sorry he’s gone from here. I like to think of them as forging a path for us, getting things ready for when we’ll all be together again. Your dad looked like a lovely man, such a genuine face and smile. He doesn’t need the walker now, and he’s smiling. Guaranteed.
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Thank you, Dawn. I love that! He mostly used his cane and was physically pretty spry. He was cracking jokes with his quick wit until the end.
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I’m glad. I hope I go in a similar fashion. Though I’m not that great a joke teller. 🙂
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Lovely post. I lost my dad a few years ago and I still miss him.
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Thank you, Lisa. The relationship between daughter and dad is special and is certainly missed when gone. I’m sorry for your loss as well. ❤️
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I’m sorry, Lisa. It’s hard losing a dad. Mine’s been gone 20 years and of course I still miss him every day. I think that’s the proof of a great relationship, that we miss them so much. Hugs.
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I’m very sorry for your loss. A great mini-tribute to your dad.
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Thank you, Trent. I wanted to share on my blog. Dad’s influence on my love for the outdoors helped me build my blog.
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God bless him.🙏🏻
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Thank you.
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Lovely post, Terri. Sorry for your loss ♥️
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Thank you, Marina. We have so many fun memories.
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